No one ever expects to get to this point. The anger, deception, frustration and fear have taken over your normally rational mind and you are not thinking clearly. Your friends, family and work place associates are all experts at telling you what to do, yet they have not been through it themselves and only have few facts relevant to your situation. The situation creates it’s own momentum and you are confused and unsure of what to do next. Following are suggestions for getting on track and moving forward.